No problem :-)
Did some digging and the folks that are smarter than I say that you should be able to do what you want (promiscous mode), however it is not supported in the drivers (PF and VF as they are. We also cannot provide any direct support for you modifying the drivers yourself. However, the souce for both are available on Source Forge and I wrote some docs to help folks understand how the drivers work so that they could customize them if they like.
The doc was written for a different 1Gb Intel device, however the same basic principles should apply. Try taking a look at:
Intel® 82576 SR-IOV Driver: Companion Guide
Hope that provides you some useful direction.
- Patrick